3 Ways To Challenge Your Depressive Thoughts



One of the most challenging parts about depression is that it doesn't like to be challenged. It likes to be heard and comforted. Depression can sometimes feel like a heavy blanket just wanting to be snuggled up with. That's what makes depression so scary. It can feel so comforting. I mean, who wouldn't want to snuggle up with a warm and heavy blanket when they're feeling sad?! I get that this isn’t the case for every scenario or person, but I’ve caught myself in this situation so many times with what depression feels like.


These depressive thoughts can be on repeat for hours until you challenge them. If you don't challenge them and instead engage in them, you may find yourself cooped up at home isolating. This will feel "good" in the moment because it's easier to feed something than it is to challenge something! Think about it. Overtime though, these thoughts will only get bigger which will make it even harder to challenge them.



So how the heck do you challenge your depressive thoughts??



LISTEN to them.


Yeah, you read that right. Those needy thoughts want to be heard, so listen to them. Don't engage in them; listen to them. There's a difference. Engaging is you continuing to build these thoughts up by adding even more thoughts that follow along the same pattern. Listening is just simply listening to what they are saying without responding right away. For me a lot of the time, my depressive thoughts give me my answer to get out of the funk without the depression even realizing it. How? By me doing the exact opposite of what it wants to do. Depression wants to be comforted and fed. It's important to listen to what your depression is telling you it doesn't want to do. Because that's the exact thing that you probably need to do ( in most scenarios ) in order to challenge it. So if my thoughts are telling me that I don't want to go outside or interact with anyone or anything else then it looks like I need to go on a walk throughout my neighborhood!


It's not easy to go against what your thoughts are telling you to do. Believe me. So if you're still not up for the challenge, what else can you do?



VOCALIZE Them.

Once the thoughts are vocalized, they aren't taking up as much space in your mind which will take away that power from them. The more you think about them, the bigger they will get and overpower your other thoughts. Once you vocalize them, it's releasing a little part of that thought. Hopefully this will make you realize the trap depression caught you in and that'll motivate you to challenge it. By doing the opposite of what it wants you to do.


Still not motivated for the challenge?



BRIBE Them.


It's probably not the healthiest thing, but I found this to be very affective for me. I typically do not recommend bribing in any other relationship of any kind, besides the relationship you have with depression!


A few months ago I caught my depression keeping me all cooped up at home, but I wasn't motivated to challenge it. I was okay sitting in those depressive thoughts because they felt comfortable. Until I bribed myself. With Swedish Fish. I knew that I really wanted a sweet candy all day, which is why I told myself that I could get some if I went outside and went on a walk. This allowed me to focus more on the candy than it did on my feelings of not wanting to go on a walk. It kind of distracted my depressive thoughts from realizing this was actually me challenging it. Instead of me thinking I'm going to go outside and go on a walk I was thinking more about how delicious the candy was going to be.




Feel free to try these ideas when you notice yourself trapped in your depression. It's in no particular order, necessarily, but can be used in this order! I would like to also remind you that I am not a medical professional and this advice is coming from my own experience with dealing with depression.




Hi, thanks for stopping by!

Just a reminder, I'm not a medical professional! Not a therapist or doctor. My advice is based off of my own experiences being diagnosed with anxiety and depression. A lot of the tips I share are things I've learned from my therapist! 

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